Counselling & Life Coaching · Transactional Analysis Svetovanje in coaching · Transakcijska analiza

The script you grew up with
is not the only story.

Scenarij, s katerim si odrasel,
ni edina zgodba.

Like Dola in Slavic myth, our life script forms early — shaped by family, childhood, the world we grew up in. Together we can understand it, and rewrite what no longer serves you.

Tako kot Dola v slovanski mitologiji se naš življenjski scenarij oblikuje zgodaj — prek družine, otroštva, sveta, v katerem smo odrasli. Skupaj ga lahko razumemo in prepišemo, kar nam ne služi več.

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Your life script
Tvoj življenjski scenarij

In Slavic myth, Dola is the invisible companion formed in childhood and passed down through family. In TA, we call this the life script — and together, we can rewrite it.

V slovanski mitologiji je Dola nevidni spremljevalec, oblikovan v otroštvu in podedovan skozi družino. V TA to imenujemo življenjski scenarij — in skupaj ga lahko prepišemo.

Dola · Script · Change Dola · Scenarij · Sprememba
dr. Andrej Renčelj

A guide for your inner journey

Vodnik za tvojo notranjo pot

Hi, I'm dr. Andrej Renčelj — a certified counsellor and life coach practising Transactional Analysis (TA). In TA, we understand that each of us forms a life script in childhood — a set of unconscious decisions about ourselves, others, and the world, shaped by the family and environment we grew up in.

Pozdravljeni, sem dr. Andrej Renčelj — certificiran svetovalec in življenjski trener, ki delam z metodo transakcijske analize (TA). V TA razumemo, da vsak od nas v otroštvu oblikuje življenjski scenarij — niz nezavednih odločitev o sebi, drugih in svetu, ki ga oblikujeta družina in okolje, v katerem smo odrasli.

This is what drew me to the name Dola — in Slavic tradition, Dola is the invisible companion inherited from family and formed in our earliest years. Just like a life script, it quietly shapes who we become. And just like a life script, it can be understood, revisited, and changed. I offer sessions in person in Ljubljana and online.

Prav to me je pritegnilo k imenu Dola — v slovanski tradiciji je Dola nevidni spremljevalec, podedovan iz družine in oblikovan v naših najzgodnejših letih. Prav tako kot življenjski scenarij tiho oblikuje, kdo postanemo. In prav tako kot življenjski scenarij ga je mogoče razumeti, pregledati in spremeniti. Srečanja ponujam osebno v Ljubljani in na spletu.

🌱 Growth-focused 🌱 Osebna rast 🤝 Non-judgmental 🤝 Brez obsojanja 💛 Trauma-informed 💛 Ozaveščenost o travmi 🔒 Confidential 🔒 Zaupno

The Name

Ime

What is Dola?

Kaj je Dola?

In Slavic mythology, Dola is an invisible companion assigned to each person from birth — shaped by family, passed down through generations, quietly present in everything we do and feel.

V slovanski mitologiji je Dola nevidni spremljevalec, dodeljen vsakemu človeku od rojstva — oblikovan v družini, podedovan skozi generacije, tiho prisoten v vsem, kar počnemo in čutimo.

This mirrors what Transactional Analysis calls the life script — the unconscious decisions we make in childhood about who we are, what the world is like, and how our story will end. Like Dola, it is formed early, often inherited, and rarely seen clearly until we choose to look.

To zrcali tisto, kar transakcijska analiza imenuje življenjski scenarij — nezavedne odločitve, ki jih sprejmemo v otroštvu o tem, kdo smo, kakšen je svet in kako se bo naša zgodba končala. Kot Dola se oblikuje zgodaj, je pogosto podedovan in redko jasno viden, dokler se ne odločimo pogledati.

The name Dola comes from the Slavic root meaning to divide and part — a reminder that what we have received is only one part of who we can become. Its counterpart, Nedola, represents the weight of patterns that hold us back. The work we do together is moving from one toward the other.

Ime Dola izhaja iz slovanskega korena, ki pomeni deliti in del — spomin, da je tisto, kar smo prejeli, le en del tega, kar lahko postanemo. Njen nasprotni par, Nedola, predstavlja breme vzorcev, ki nas zadržujejo. Delo, ki ga opravljamo skupaj, je premik od enega k drugemu.

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Formed in childhood
Oblikovan v otroštvu
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Inherited from family
Podedovan iz družine
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Ready to be rewritten
Pripravljen za prepis

What I Offer

Moje storitve

Sessions designed for you

Srečanja, ustvarjena za tebe

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Individual Counselling
Individualno svetovanje

One-to-one sessions exploring your inner world, life patterns, and emotional wellbeing through the TA framework.

Individualna srečanja za raziskovanje notranjega sveta, življenjskih vzorcev in čustvenega blagostanja z metodo TA.

50 minutes 50 minut
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Life Coaching
Življenjski coaching

Goal-oriented coaching to help you clarify your values, unlock potential, and move forward with confidence.

Coaching, usmerjen v cilje, ki ti pomaga razjasniti vrednote, odkleniti potencial in samozavestno napredovati.

50 minutes 50 minut
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Free Intro Call
Brezplačni uvodni pogovor

Not sure where to start? Book a free 10-minute call to talk about what you're looking for and whether we're the right fit.

Ne veš, kje začeti? Rezerviraj brezplačen 10-minutni pogovor, da se spoznava in ugotoviva, ali sva primerna drug za drugega.

10 minutes 10 minut
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Hypnosis
Hipnoza

A gentle, focused approach using guided hypnosis to access the subconscious — ideal for releasing deep-rooted patterns, fears, and limiting beliefs.

Nežen, usmerjen pristop z vodeno hipnozo za dostop do podzavesti — idealen za sproščanje globoko zakoreninjenih vzorcev, strahov in omejujočih prepričanj.

Learn more → Več o hipnozi →

How It Works

Kako poteka

Your path to change

Tvoja pot do spremembe

1
Reach Out
Stopite v stik

Fill in the contact form or send an email. I'll get back to you within 24 hours.

Izpolnite obrazec ali pošljite e-pošto. Odgovorim v 24 urah.

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Free Intro Call
Uvodni pogovor

We meet briefly online to understand your needs and decide if we're a good match.

Kratko srečanje na spletu, da razumemo vaše potrebe in ugotovimo, ali smo primerni drug za drugega.

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Begin Sessions
Začnemo srečanja

We start regular sessions — in person or online — at your pace, with your goals in focus.

Začnemo redna srečanja — osebno ali na spletu — v vašem tempu, z vašimi cilji v ospredju.

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Grow & Thrive
Rastemo skupaj

Experience lasting change, deeper self-understanding, and a life that truly feels like yours.

Doživite trajno spremembo, globlji samospoznanje in življenje, ki se resnično zdi vaše.

FAQ

Common questions

Pogosta vprašanja

What is Transactional Analysis?
Kaj je transakcijska analiza?
Transactional Analysis (TA) is a psychotherapy and personal development approach developed by Eric Berne. It helps you understand your personality, communication patterns, and life "script" — the unconscious plan shaping your choices — so you can create real, lasting change.
Transakcijska analiza (TA) je pristop psihoterapije in osebnega razvoja, ki ga je razvil Eric Berne. Pomaga vam razumeti svojo osebnost, vzorce komunikacije in življenjski "scenarij" — nezavedni načrt, ki oblikuje vaše odločitve — da lahko ustvarite resnično, trajno spremembo.
Do I need prior experience with counselling or coaching?
Ali potrebujem predhodne izkušnje s svetovanjem ali coachingom?
Not at all. Whether this is your first time seeking support or you've worked with a counsellor before, you are welcome. We start at the right pace for you.
Sploh ne. Ne glede na to, ali je to vaša prva izkušnja s podporo ali pa ste že prej delali s svetovalcem, ste dobrodošli. Začnemo v tempu, ki je pravi za vas.
How long does a typical coaching or counselling journey take?
Kako dolgo traja tipična popotnica coachinga ali svetovanja?
This varies from person to person. Some people find clarity in 6–8 sessions; others work longer for deeper transformation. We review progress together regularly and you are always in control of the process.
To se razlikuje od osebe do osebe. Nekateri dobijo jasnost v 6–8 srečanjih; drugi delajo dlje za globljo preobrazbo. Skupaj redno pregledujemo napredek in vi ste vedno v nadzoru procesa.
Are online sessions as effective as in-person?
So spletna srečanja enako učinkovita kot osebna?
Yes! Research and my own experience show that online sessions can be equally effective. They also offer flexibility — you can join from the comfort and privacy of your own space.
Da! Raziskave in moje lastne izkušnje kažejo, da so spletna srečanja enako učinkovita. Ponujajo tudi fleksibilnost — pridružite se iz udobja in zasebnosti svojega prostora.
Is everything I share kept confidential?
Je vse, kar delim, zaupno?
Absolutely. Confidentiality is a core part of our work together. Everything discussed in our sessions stays private, in line with professional ethical guidelines.
Absolutno. Zaupnost je temeljni del našega skupnega dela. Vse, o čemer se pogovarjamo na srečanjih, ostane zasebno, v skladu s poklicnimi etičnimi smernicami.

From the Blog

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Insights for everyday life

Vpogledi za vsakdanje življenje

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Transactional Analysis
Transakcijska analiza
What Are Ego States — and Why Do They Matter?
Kaj so ego stanja — in zakaj so pomembna?

TA's three ego states — Parent, Adult, Child — are a powerful lens for understanding your reactions and relationships.

Tri ego stanja TA — Starš, Odrasli, Otrok — so zmogljiva leča za razumevanje vaših reakcij in odnosov.

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Life Coaching
Življenjski coaching
How to Recognise Your Life Script
Kako prepoznati svoj življenjski scenarij

We all carry unconscious beliefs shaped in childhood. Here's how to spot yours — and gently begin to rewrite them.

Vsi nosimo nezavedna prepričanja, oblikovana v otroštvu. Tukaj je opisano, kako jih prepoznati — in jih nežno začeti prepisovati.

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Wellbeing
Blagostanje
The Power of Strokes: How Recognition Shapes Us
Moč potrditev: Kako nas prepoznanje oblikuje

In TA, "strokes" are units of recognition. Understanding them can transform your relationships and self-worth.

V TA so "stroke" enote prepoznanja. Razumevanje le-teh lahko preoblikuje vaše odnose in samospoštovanje.

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Transactional Analysis
Transakcijska analiza
What Is Transactional Analysis and How Does It Help?
Kaj je transakcijska analiza in kako pomaga?

A clear introduction to the TA method — what it is, why it works, and who it's for.

Jasen uvod v metodo TA — kaj je, zakaj deluje in za koga je primerna.

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Life Coaching
Življenjski coaching
Counselling or Coaching: Which Do You Need?
Svetovanje ali coaching: kaj potrebujete?

The key differences between counselling and coaching — and how to know which fits your situation.

Ključne razlike med svetovanjem in coachingom — in kako vedeti, kaj ustreza vaši situaciji.

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Transactional Analysis
Transakcijska analiza
The Life Script: Why We Repeat the Same Patterns
Življenjski scenarij: zakaj ponavljamo iste vzorce

Why certain situations keep repeating in your life — and how the life script can be rewritten.

Zakaj se določene situacije v življenju ponavljajo — in kako je mogoče življenjski scenarij prepisati.

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Ready to take the first step?

Pripravljeni na prvi korak?

Whether you have questions or you're ready to book, I'd love to hear from you. Fill in the form and I'll be in touch within 24 hours.

Ne glede na to, ali imate vprašanja ali ste pripravljeni rezervirati termin, bi vas rada slišala. Izpolnite obrazec in se javim v 24 urah.

📍 Ljubljana, Slovenia
💻 Online sessions via Zoom / Teams Spletna srečanja prek Zoom / Teams
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